the importance of labels

I'd be the first to say there is a divide between people when it coms to labels, the first thinks about labels as something you use to define things and is thus indispensable and the other thinks it's so limiting, man

and i' agree with both of them

you see, because sometimes labels aren't limiting, they set you free
when you find out what you are, the name, the label, the word that defines YOU then suddenly it ceases to be a "label" but becomes a descriptor, a translator that defines to the rest of the word your essence, something about you that is now set, instead of being chaotic and unknowable

- this isn't so for everyone, of course, some people thrive in the undefined - and, in manyways I am the same, I don't want this and that defined, what exactly this and that.

some other things tho....

I am autochorissexual
I have one of those "labels", one of those infinitely complex and yet quite simple orientations you read about.
I feel more defined, I am free.